• Aged 45 from just outside London. Would love to meet people for a chat about boys and other things. If not to meet up then just chat by messaging. Interested in films (mainly science fiction ) , photography and taking candid pics. Never knew this site existed until I found it while looking for something else. Great site. Great pictures. Been a BL since 15/16. "Came out" at 16 so fully sympathise with any young BL who is either afraid to declare this or just wants a few words of encouragement.